Helping your child buy a home — The Buyers Grail

Helping your child buy a home

The four ways a family helps with a purchase, a gift, a loan, a guarantee or buying together, and what each means for the parents, the buyer and the lender.

Two generations, one decision. Parents who put money or a guarantee behind a purchase want to know what they are exposed to and for how long; the adult children they help want to know what the lender will make of it and what it changes about the loan. These pages are for both, and for the conversation between them. They explain what each form of help does. They never say whether a family should help.

The four ways families help

Form of helpFor the parentsFor the buyerFor the lender
A giftMoney that is gone. Above Centrelink's free area it can still count as the giver's asset for five years if a pension is in the picture.A bigger deposit, a lower loan-to-value ratio, often no lenders mortgage insurance.Wants a signed gift letter, and sometimes some of the deposit to be the buyer's own savings.
A family loanMoney expected back, on terms both sides wrote down. Interest, if charged, is income to declare.A bigger deposit and a second repayment; the lender usually counts it as a debt.Sees a liability and tests serviceability with it. May still want a gift letter if the loan is to be treated as a gift.
A guaranteeNo cash moves. Their own property secures a capped part of the loan until the guarantee is released.A loan above 80% of the price without the insurance premium; the deposit does not change.Holds two securities; sets the cap; usually requires the guarantor to see a solicitor of their own first.
Buying togetherA share on the title, with duty, land tax and capital gains consequences of their own, and an exit to plan.A co-owner and a co-borrower; the first-home concessions may depend on every owner being eligible.Assesses every owner as a borrower.

The guides

The tool, the checklist and the report

How to read these pages

Each page describes what a form of help does: to the deposit and the loan, to the parents' assets and income tests, to the tax and legal position of both sides, and to the schemes the buyer may be counting on. Where a rule has a figure, the figure carries its source and the date it was checked. Where lenders differ, the page says "commonly" and means it: the only rule that applies to a particular loan is the one the lender writes into it.

Three professionals appear on every page for a reason. A solicitor draws up a loan agreement or a guarantee and explains what it binds; a broker or lender says what a policy will accept; an accountant or financial adviser looks at the parents' side, from the age pension to the estate. The pages tell you what to ask each of them, not what they will answer.

Where the report fits

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